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		<title>A moment of Grace</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 19:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Darren Ethier</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On April 26, 2008, the Western Oregon women&#8217;s softball team played against Central Washington University in Ellensburg, Washington. During the course of the game, Western Oregon senior Sara Tucholsky hit the first homerun of her college career. She dropped her &#8230; <a href="http://www.unashamedsermons.com/2008/a-moment-of-grace/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On April 26, 2008, the Western Oregon women&#8217;s softball team played against Central Washington University in Ellensburg, Washington. During the course of the game, Western Oregon senior Sara Tucholsky hit the first homerun of her college career. She dropped her bat and started to make her way around the bases. In the midst of all the excitement, she forgot to tag first base. When the first base coach brought the mistake to her attention, she quickly turned around. To everyone&#8217;s horror, her right knee buckled. Crying, she tried her best to crawl back to the base. Tucholsky&#8217;s teammates were warned that if they touched her, she would be called out. The umpires also noted that if her coaches opted to call in a pinch runner, the homerun would only count as a single.<span id="more-499"></span></p>
<p class="text">You can probably imagine the shock everyone felt, then, when Mallory Holtman, the opposing team&#8217;s first baseman and career homerun leader for Central Washington, turned to the umpire and said, &#8220;Would it be okay if we carried her around the bases, and she touched each bag?&#8221; When the umpires gave their approval, Holtman and teammate Liz Wallace picked up Tucholsky, crossed their hands beneath her, and carried her to second base. Once there, they lowered the injured player and gently touched her foot to the bag. They did the same for third base and home plate. The crowd erupted into a standing ovation. Western Oregon went on to win the game, eliminating Central Washington from the playoffs.</p>
<p class="text">When later asked about the good deed, Holtman said the decision to help out her opponent was simple. She felt Tucholsky deserved the homerun, because the ball cleared the fence. In her own interview, Tucholsky said, &#8220;It&#8217;s amazing, what they did…I hope I would do the same for her in the same situation.&#8221; George Vecsey, a writer who was there covering the game, said what happened can only be described as a moment of grace.</p>
<div class="byline"><em>Ted DeHass, Bedford, Iowa, and Brian Lowery, managing editor, PreachingToday.com; source: George Vecsey, &#8220;A Sporting Gesture Touches &#8216;Em All,&#8221; The New York Times (4-30-08)</em></div>
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		<title>I Saw Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2007 15:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Darren Ethier</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry. Please forgive me! I don&#8217;t mean to hold you up,&#8221; he said as he struggled to get off the escalator.I&#8217;ll admit to it. There have been times when walking or driving behind an older person, I&#8217;ve gotten impatient &#8230; <a href="http://www.unashamedsermons.com/2007/i-saw-me/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry. Please forgive me! I don&#8217;t mean to hold you up,&#8221; he said as he struggled to get off the escalator.I&#8217;ll admit to it. There have been times when walking or driving behind an older person, I&#8217;ve gotten impatient and upset. I&#8217;ve huffed and zoomed around them because I was in a hurry to get nowhere. Perhaps I&#8217;m more aware of it<br />
now because I see myself there one day soon. Today I saw myself in this old man&#8217;s shoes and it caused me to slow down, stop, and ask for his forgiveness.</p>
<p>He was about five or six people ahead of me. I was in a hurry and saw him as an obstacle. I&#8217;ve seen people get off the end of an escalator and stop dead in their tracks, gather their things and suddenly there&#8217;s a pile up of angry<br />
people behind them. You can&#8217;t stop an escalator full of people behind you.<span id="more-443"></span></p>
<p>Like the Energizer bunny, they keep on goin&#8217;.</p>
<p>This man was well aware of the challenge. He tried desperately to step aside. Fumbling with his small packages, struggling to gain his footing, you could see how troubling this was for him. &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry. Please forgive me! I don&#8217;t mean to hold you up,&#8221; he said as he struggled to get off the escalator.</p>
<p>I suddenly saw this in a whole new light. It was like I was watching my future. I felt sorry for him. I felt sick to my stomach because this man was apologizing to everyone, when we should have been helping him and calming his fears.</p>
<p>One by one, people zipped around him. I heard a few angry comments whispered as one lady passed by him.</p>
<p>I saw me.</p>
<p>By the time I got to him he was just about steady on his feet.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, I&#8217;m sorry. I didn&#8217;t know there was more,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>&#8220;No, sir. No more with me,&#8221; I said. This really hit me hard. I realized right then how sad it was that the world was in such a hurry. That, of course, included me. But&#8230;no more with me. Count me out.</p>
<p>This wonderful man paid his dues. For whatever time he had spent on this earth, he most likely walked many rough roads and too many important miles. Now he should be apologizing for moving slower?</p>
<p>My heart ached as I looked into his eyes. I wished that I could see what he had seen all those years. His face weathered from life itself, was creased and wrinkled. The small soft pockets under his eyes and the gentle lines<br />
that curved up and around them told me he had many happy moments, too. Those were traces left behind from laughter and a smiling, happy man.</p>
<p>&#8220;My friend, can I help you with those things?&#8221; I asked.</p>
<p>Hesitant at first, he finally said, &#8220;Well, yes, thank you!&#8221;</p>
<p>I placed my hand under his left arm and walked with him a safe distance away from the rush of people.</p>
<p>&#8220;So what are you shopping for, sir?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, just a little something for my neighbor. She&#8217;s a young mother raising kids on her own. She&#8217;s always so nice to me. I thought a box of candy for Mother&#8217;s Day&#8230;&#8221; he said, stopping suddenly as he searched the inside pocket of his sport coat.</p>
<p>&#8220;Do you need something?&#8221; I asked.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, no. Here. I think I have it right here. I always carry them with me,&#8221; he said. Then pulling out a hand full of papers he shuffled through them and handed me a business card that read:</p>
<p>&#8220;John A. Pomicter. Friend to all&#8230;enemy to no one! I said a prayer today and you were the answer. Thank you!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s for you,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Thanks for stopping to help an old man.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;My friend, you helped ME! I discovered that I was unhappy with the world and I was part of the problem. Now I&#8217;ll be part of the solution. No more with me!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Then this was meant to be,&#8221; he said smiling. &#8220;You know God sends me gifts every day and always at least one special person. You were my gift for today! Let&#8217;s go get some chocolates, my friend.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Helping those with Cancer</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2007 14:47:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Darren Ethier</dc:creator>
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		<title>What&#8217;s So Good about Friday</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 17:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Darren Ethier</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the text of a multimedia message I gave to my church this past Friday. It presents the question, "What's so good about Good Friday?" and brings the congregation through a reflective journey of exactly what it is that we remember on this day. <a href="http://www.unashamedsermons.com/2007/whats-so-good-about-friday/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font color="#999999">(Note to readers/listeners of this message: This Good Friday message was a multimedia presentation.  I created three video narratives where the text accompanied images.  I also included clips from sermonspice.com that were interspersed throughout the message.  There was also participation in congregational worship at various points in the message [indicated in this text].  The audio is taken from the videos I made, from two of the sermonspice.com clips, and from the few times I did speak live.  None of the worship choruses are included in the audio.)</font></p>
<p>{Show video &#8220;<a href="http://www.sermonspice.com/videos/8182/put-to-death" title="SermonSpice.com a great resource for illustrations!">Put to Death</a>&#8221; (from sermonspice.com)}</p>
<blockquote><p><em>for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, </em><br />
<strong>Romans 3:23 (NIV)</strong></p>
<p><em>For the wages of sin is death,&#8230;</em><strong>Romans 6:23</strong><strong> (NIV)</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>{Worship<br />
?	Nothing but the Blood}</p>
<h3>Reflection</h3>
<p>(from &#8220;WhatSoGoodAboutFriday clip#1)<br />
Today we&#8217;re going to take some time to think about Jesus.  Actually we&#8217;re going to think about  the cross (pause) where Jesus died.  Have you thought about the cross lately?  Have you thought about your sin lately?  Have you thought about why we call this Friday, at this time of year, every year that we recognize it &#8211; good?</p>
<p>What was good about a man&#8217;s friend betraying him with a kiss?  What was good about the rest of His friends fleeing into the night &#8211; leaving Him to the mercy of a  hostile mob? What was good about a man coming before a trial of judges made up of priests, and religious leaders &#8211; accusing him of blasphemy and condemning Him to death?  What was good about that?</p>
<p>Have you thought about the claims Jesus made lately?</p>
<p>Jesus claimed to be the Son of God</p>
<blockquote><p><em>The high priest said to him, &#8220;I charge you under oath by the living God: Tell us if you are the Christ, the Son of God.&#8221; 64 &#8220;Yes, it is as you say,&#8221; Jesus replied. &#8220;But I say to all of you: In the future you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of the Mighty One and coming on the clouds of heaven.&#8221; </em><br />
<strong>Matthew 26:63-64 (NIV)</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Was this claim what sealed his death sentence?</p>
<p>Those around Him knew Him to be a man, there was nothing supernatural about His appearance.  He got hungry, he got tired, He wept, He laughed, He felt pain.</p>
<p>Yet those closest to Him knew Him for something more &#8211; yes He was fully man, but they also saw in Him the signature of deity.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>15 &#8220;But what about you?&#8221; he asked. &#8220;Who do you say I am?&#8221; 16 Simon Peter answered, &#8220;You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.&#8221; 17 Jesus replied, &#8220;Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by man, but by my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. </em><br />
<strong>Matthew 16:15-18 (NIV)</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>He healed the sick, the blind gained sight, the lame walked, the possessed were freed.  He walked on water, He made a banquet out of a lunch, He woke up the dead from their final sleep!  Certainly there was legitimacy to this claim of Christ, the Son of God.  God Himself.</p>
<p>But then, what is so good about Friday?  What is so good about God surrendering to a rabble, submitting to a mockery of a trial &#8211; being spit on, cursed upon, pushed around, whipped, dragged through torture, paraded as a criminal and nailed to a cross.  That kind of God really doesn&#8217;t inspire much confidence does he?  Does he?<br />
{Worship<br />
?	All Hail King Jesus (D)<br />
?	Holy, Holy, Holy (D)}</p>
<h3>Jesus claimed He came to give life  (What&#8217;sSoGoodAboutFriday Clip #2)</h3>
<blockquote><p><em>7 Therefore Jesus said again, &#8220;I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep. 8 All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. 9 I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture. 10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. </em><br />
<strong>John 10:7-10 (NIV)</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Came to give life, and life&#8230; more&#8230;abundantly.  Jesus not only claimed to offer life &#8211; but life fuller than people knew.  A complete life.</p>
<p>But then, what is so good about Friday?  What is so good about this man full of life, who offers this full life, being put to death on a cross.  To death.  A complete death.  Please&#8230;don&#8217;t tell me the nails, the crown of thorns, the lashing of whip lined with metal to tear the flesh, the scorching sun, the relentless thirst, and a being staked on a proven instrument of death &#8230; didn&#8217;t kill Jesus.  He was dead.  He was dead.</p>
<p>What is so good about Friday?  What is so good about death?</p>
<p>{Show Video &#8220;<a href="http://www.sermonspice.com/videos/5607/i%20wonder">I Wonder</a>&#8221; from sermonspice.com}</p>
<p>{Worship<br />
?	Above All (A) [Starting with Chorus "crucified, laid behind a stone..."]}</p>
<h3>Jesus also said&#8230; (What&#8217;sSoGoodAboutFriday Clip #3)</h3>
<blockquote><p>.<em>..&#8221;I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. </em><br />
John 14:6 (NIV)</p></blockquote>
<p>Jesus claimed He was the way</p>
<p>&#8230;the way to the Father,  the way to life, the way to heaven, the way to peace, the way to salvation.</p>
<p>Here is what is so good about Friday.  Jesus could have chosen to remain aloof, stay in heaven &#8211; being God it was,  it is, within His power to do so;  God could have chosen to abandon this broken world, it&#8217;s broken people, to the curse of sin and given up on us &#8211;  God could have even decided to start over, to try again.</p>
<p>But He didn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>What is good about Friday, isn&#8217;t what God did &#8211; it isn&#8217;t the fact that Jesus came to earth &#8211; fully God and fully human &#8211; to walk among us.  It isn&#8217;t that He endured the betrayal of those closest to Him.  It isn&#8217;t that He allowed the travesty of a staged trial cast undeserved slurs and charges upon Him.  It isn&#8217;t that He was dragged off to Pilate, beaten, whipped, spit upon, stripped naked, or mocked.  It isn&#8217;t good because the same crowd that welcomed Him a week ago shouting &#8220;Hosanna, Hosanna&#8221; was now screaming &#8220;Crucify Him, Crucify Him&#8221;.  It isn&#8217;t good because of his death in the most cruel form of capital punishment known in the Roman world.</p>
<p>No friends,</p>
<p>What is good about Friday is one thing only&#8230;</p>
<p>{show video &#8220;<a href="http://www.sermonspice.com/videos/1423/all-for-love-">all for love</a>&#8221; from sermonspice.com}</p>
<p>{Worship<br />
?	You are My King (D) [start with chorus "Amazing Love, how can it be..."]}</p>
<p>{Show PowerPoint picture of the Cross}<br />
{Spoken Live}</p>
<h3>CONCLUSION</h3>
<p>Yes, friends &#8211; what was good, what is good about the Friday before Easter is that everything occurred that day because of God&#8217;s love for you, for me.  It was love that brought Him to this planet as Jesus, it was love that carried Him to the cross as the way of ending once and for all the death grip of sin on every single one of us.  Because of His love we now have a choice.  We can choose to remain in the curse of sin and it&#8217;s death,  or we can choose to receive the gift of life in Jesus Christ.</p>
<p>It is God&#8217;s love that not only dealt with sin but brought and brings new life to every single follower of Jesus Christ.  It is God&#8217;s love that enables us to walk in relationship with Him through the work and presence of the Holy Spirit in every believer&#8217;s heart.  It is God love that is what is good about Friday.</p>
<p>Have you thought about the cross lately,  Have you thought about your sin lately,  Have you thought about God&#8217;s love lately?</p>
<p>{Worship<br />
?	The Old Rugged Cross<br />
?	Forever Grateful (G)<br />
?	I Cry Holy, Holy, Holy God (G)<br />
?	I Stand in Awe of You (G)<br />
?	I Cry Holy (reprise)}</p>
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		<title>The opposite of love&#8230;not what you think!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 14:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Darren Ethier</dc:creator>
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