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Now THIS is a great interview question…

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

“Whenever I interviewed a prospect for a staff position, I carefully avoided details about what I was looking for and then about 20 minutes into the interview, I asked the greatest interview question ever. “Joe, talk about the best job you’ve ever had. You’re driving home after work and all of a sudden it hits you. ‘Wow! That was a really great day at work!’ Tell me. What happened at work that caused that little celebration?” Joe’s eyes light up. His interviewee nervousness disappears and what gives him joy at work quickly oozes out. I’ve never seen anyone manufacture an answer to that question.”

Your Weekly Staff Meeting, JohnPearsonAssociates.com 6/25/07

The Mask: Who do you think you are?

Sunday, August 26th, 2007

INTRODUCTION

9 To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everybody else, Jesus told this parable: 10 “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men–robbers, evildoers, adulterers–or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’ 13 “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’ 14 “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”
Luke 18:9-14 (NIV)

It is difficult to find anyone who has a kind word to say about hypocrites. Nobody likes a hypocrite; no one wants to be around one; and the last thing one would want to be called is a hypocrite! That’s probably one of the reasons why the Pharisees didn’t like Jesus too much. Both Matthew and Mark record 17 locations where the Pharisees and teachers of the law are either directly or indirectly called hypocrites by Christ.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of dead men’s bones and everything unclean.
Matthew 23:27 (NIV)

I guess that verse is a pretty good description of what a hypocrite is. How about these other definitions,

The story has been told of a woman who had acquired wealth and social prominence and decided to have a book written about her genealogy. The well-known author she engaged for the assignment discovered that one of her grandfathers was a murderer who had been electrocuted in Sing Sing. When he said this would have to be included in the book, the woman pleaded that he find a way of saying it that would hid the truth. When the book appeared, the incident read as follows: “One of her grandfathers occupied the chair of applied electricity in one of America’s best-known institutions. He was very much attached to his position and literally died in the harness.” (Autoillustrator.com, HYPOCRISY/DECEPTION)

A humorist told the story of a driver who put a note under the windshield wiper of a parked car. It read: “I have just smashed into your car. The people who saw the accident are watching me. They think I’m writing down my name and address. I’m not. Good luck.” (Autoillustrator.com, HYPOCRISY/DECEPTION)

The word “hypocrite” was originally a theatrical term, describing actors, who concealed their real countenances behind dramatic masks. What Jesus was rebuking the Pharisees about then is their “wearing of a mask”. They concealed their real selves behind a mask of “righteousness”. In fact Jesus makes this very clear in the following verses,

Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean.
Matthew 23:26 (NIV)

He replied, “Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written: “‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.
Mark 7:6 (NIV)

Hypocrites conceal sadness with a smile; they say they are happy to see you when they would rather have root canal work than to be in your presence; they give money to charities they do not truly support; they make speeches for causes they don’t care about; and they laugh at jokes they don’t find funny. In short, hypocrites wear masks, pretending to be who they are not.

There are really two kinds of hypocrites:

1. The hypocrite that does what he doesn’t believe or what he isn’t.
An example of this would be…

…a man who writes a book praising atheism and then prays that it will sell. (Leighton Ford)

2. The hypocrite that doesn’t do what he does believe or what he is.

A father complained about the amount of time his family spent in front of the television. His children watched cartoons and neglected schoolwork. His wife preferred soap operas to housework. His solution? “As soon as the baseball season’s over, I’m going to pull the plug.” (Autoillustrator.com, HYPOCRISY)

What these two statements really say is that, hypocrisy is like a pin. It is pointed in one direction, and yet is headed in another.

The worse of this breed, however are religious hypocrites. The specific problem with religious hypocrites is that they are not only “holier-than-thou”; they are also “holier-than-themselves.” They feign devotion, but it is mostly counterfeit. They’ll appear much different than they are. If we want to be hard on hypocrites – especially religious hypocrites – we seem to have a natural ally in Jesus. Whenever he got a card-carrying hypocrite in his sights, he pulled the rhetorical trigger. With rollicking humor, Jesus mocked hypocrites as the clowns of their own moral vaudeville show. As Jesus described them, hypocrites want the trumpeter to play “Hey Look Me Over” when they pull out their offering envelopes; they conduct prayer meetings at busy intersections during rush hour; and on fast days they put on a melancholy public face that makes them look for all the world like they have the flu. In short, they parade their deeds with a flourish before the admiring eyes of others. That’s what they want, and that’s what they get – indeed, the problem is that the adoration of the crowd is all they get. “Truly I tell you,” Jesus says, “they have received their reward.”

What we know is that Jesus did not tolerate the hypocrite and neither should we. But here we have the story that I read at the beginning of this message – the story of the tax collector and the Pharisee. And I want to ask you this morning, “Who do you think you are?” Are you wearing a mask? Are you the Pharisee or the tax collector?

PHARISEE

First, let’s look at the Pharisee. Pharisee is a word that means, “to separate”. And indeed that’s how they conducted themselves. They were separate from everybody else because they were so holy.

• They did not want to be infected by associating with the “wrong kind” of people
• They were conceited
• They were ignorant
• They were pompous
• They were selfish, and lovers of money
• They were judgmental
• They were legalistic

These guys were mean spiritual people and some of them even carried a sword by their side. If you disagreed with their spiritual doctrinal position, they would cut you to pieces, in love of course!

If you could imagine, the Pharisee is climbing the stairs to the synagogue. He’s swaggering back and forth down the center aisle, and he finds a perfect place where everyone can see him. So he puts on his bouncy peacock strut and he’s not going to pray a prayer to God, but he’s going to make a public announcement about his goodness. He said this, “Lord, I thank you that I’m not like the other men, extortionist, unjust, adulterers, or even, like this lonesome tax collector here!” Today we might laugh at people like that, but then again, we dare not, because we might be laughing at ourselves.

You see, I believe that in every church today, there are some Pharisees, there are people who separate themselves from “the wrong kind” of people because they consider themselves so spiritually elite from everyone else. They’re deep, real deep, they are so deep that they can’t understand where they are, and they can’t even fully understand what they believe. Let me tell you something, God called me to preach to His sheep (found and lost), not search for submarines, and if you’re in something so deep, that you can’t explain it then maybe you better think about coming back up to the surface and looking around a bit.

There are many types of Pharisees, I’m going to share two with you:

Racial Pharisees: these are people who don’t want to associate with another person because of the color of their skin. Now I really believe that we don’t have that kind of Pharisee present in HPC but nevertheless I think something still needs to be made clear. We are into saving people here not skins. There is not white church; no brown church; no black church; or not yellow church – there is only the blood-bought church of Jesus Christ, and if that doesn’t strike you just right then you’ve missed a fundamental truth of the gospel.

Social Pharisee: This Pharisee says, “If you live in the right neighborhood; if you drive the right kind of car; if you have the right kind of education; or if you have the right kind of clothes, we would love to associate with you, but if you don’t, we can’t.” Let me tell you something – I believe that stinks in the nostrils of God.

If someone came a church service, and sat down beside you in dirty blue jeans, and they reeked of alcohol, don’t you dare reject them, you treat them like a brother or sister because the Prince of Peace died for them too.

Now there are many other types of Pharisees in the world, and I’m not going to go through any more of them but I am going to give you eight ways to know if you have a Pharisee spirit:

You know you are a Pharisee when…

…you lack the ability to receive correction.

The scriptures clearly portray a wise man as one who is eager to receive correction.

As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)

However if you rebuke a person who has a religious spirit, or rebuke a Pharisee who’s saturated in his or her own ego, and the god of self, then he or she will get angry. They will become defensive; they will be resentful, and they will be rebellious. They may even say something like this, “I’m leaving this church, and I’m leaving right now.” Let me tell you something very important – when you get too big to receive correction, then you’ve become too big for God to use.

…you boast, “I only listen to God, never to man”

This is contrary to the teaching of the word of God. Certainly the voice of God is superior to the voice of man but that doesn’t mean God won’t speak through those in authority over us. When you open the scripture you find that the principal of spiritual authority is very clearly taught – in it we find the command to submit to one another.

Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.
Hebrews 13:17 (NIV)

Young men, in the same way be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
1 Peter 5:5 (NIV)

Pharisees hate spiritual authority; they don’t want to be accountable to anyone.

…you have an inclination to see the wrong in other people.

In the story of the Pharisee and the tax collector this inclination is very obvious. Let me tell you something – fault finding is not a fruit of the Holy Spirit!! It is a demon spirit from hell itself. After all satan himself is described as the accuser of the brethren in Revelations 12:10. The work of a Christian is not to find fault in others, the work of a believer in Christ is follow Christ and lead others to Him!!

The pattern of hell is to bring the criticism and shame of mistakes made in the past. If there is something that is within you that enjoys going back through someone’s past and rehearsing every bad thing they ever did, you are doing the work of the devil not the work of God! Think about that for a moment.

…you feel you’ve been appointed to fix others.

Jesus said,

41 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 42 How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
Luke 6:41-42 (NIV)

Paul said,

Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.
Romans 14:4 (NIV)

James said,

There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you–who are you to judge your neighbor?
James 4:12 (NIV)

When you stand before God on Judgment Day, you’re not going to answer for me, and I’m not going to answer for you. God is going to ask me about my life, and He’s going to ask you about yours.

A pastor was visiting one of his parishioners, and as they were talking the conversation began to lag. The lady of the house, wanting to pick up the conversation, pointed out her window to her neighbor’s back yard where the wash was hanging on the line. She said: “See that lady next door and the wash she hangs out, see how dirty it is, she never hangs out a clean wash.”

The pastor felt somewhat uncomfortable and tried to change the subject and quickly drew the visit to a close. As he was departing from the house the lady of the house walked out on the front porch with him and again the wash next door was clearly visible to them. They both realized at the same time that this wash was sparkling white, just as white as any wash could ever be. The truth began to dawn on them that it was not the neighbor’s wash which was dirty, rather it was the window through which they viewed the wash.

Now this doesn’t mean that we are not to help brothers and sisters who are caught in the traps of sin. But its always important that our intervention be directed by the Holy Spirit and His love. The pharisaical attitude always approaches sin with a “holier than thou” behavior and a feeling of superiority over the “sinner” rather than a genuine love for their well-being. The Christian approach to sin is always to work towards reconciliation rather than leave a person condemned.

…you feel you are closer to God than other people.

At the heart of this Pharisees prayer was, “Lord, I thank you that I’m not like other people”. That is demonic pride. That’s the spirit that was in Lucifer when he went before God, before the earth was created and said, “I will be like God, I will ascend the hill of God, I’m going to replace God.” And that’s when Lucifer became satan. That’s why a verse in proverbs says,

Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.
Proverbs 16:18 (NIV)

This truly is then the foundation of every Pharisaical spirit – egotistical pride.

…your prayer life becomes mechanical.

The Pharisee’s prayer in this story was a performance. It was not an expression of passion but an act of performance. He sought the perfect place of prayer; he sought the perfect position of prayer and he made a proclamation of prayer which had nothing to do with God but everything to do with the Pharisees own “goodness”. Prayer is not telling God how to do your will, prayer is getting you ready to do God’s will. Prayer is not talking about what you’ve done for God it’s about seeking what God wants to do for and through you.

… you want recognition for what you do in the kingdom of God.

The Pharisee boasted, “I tithe, I fast and don’t you forget it” It’s the same attitude that leads to others with the same spirit saying, “I brought hotdogs and hamburgers to the church picnic, and you misspelled my name in the church newsletter…” I seem to recall reading somewhere that Jesus said,

But many who are first will be last, and the last first.”
Mark 10:31 (NIV)

… you are critical of the Holy Spirit and His manifestations.

Now I want to make it clear that the Bible does say to test the spirits. So it is important that we pray for discernment when there are manifestations so that we know which are of God and which are not. However it is also equally important to understand that God, the Holy Spirit cannot be put in a box.

Pharisees like to have a religion to control, the sad thing is that God will let you control your “religion” if you want to. However, God’s desire is that you give control over to Him and have a relationship. Pharisees have to get God in a box, and dare not let Him out of the box because He might want them to do something they have never done before. But when you have an experience with the Holy Spirit, driven by supernatural wind and fire, you will experience a passion that consumes your heart and soul. This passion drives corruption out your life and will lead to speech and actions that you’ve never done before. There will be a Holy passion within you that hell can’t put out, and that’s what God wants you to have!!!

TAX COLLECTOR

Now let’s meet the tax collector. Basically he’s a Jew who works for Rome on a commission. Historically when Rome wanted to collect a certain amount of taxes from a given district they would go to a man and make him a tax collector. They say to this man, we want this many dollars out of this district and anything you get over that is yours. Of course human nature being what it is the tax collector would most often take advantage of this opportunity and extort their own people to get rich. So tax collectors were seen as traitors to their own people – the worst of the worst. This is how bad they were viewed: If a Jewish man was walking down the street, and happened to touch a tax collector, he would do these three things immediately:

i. He would spit instantly, to express his disgust for touching him.
ii. Then he would go home and burn his clothes, everything that he had on when he touched that man.
iii. Then he would take a scalding hot bath; to purify himself, to get over the varmint he just touched.

Do you get the picture? Tax collectors weren’t liked very much!

Now I want you to notice this tax collector’s prayer; a man who would extort money from his fellow Jews; a man who worked for the enemy of the Jewish nation. The Bible says that he stood far off. This was not a show, this was between himself and God. It was not a performance, this was a gut wrenching confession of the sin that was in his life. Luke records that the man would not even lift his eyes to heaven, because he felt unworthy to look at God in the face. And then he said, “God have mercy on me a sinner” at least that’s how it reads in the NIV, however the Greek text actually reads, “God be merciful to me the sinner”. In other words the man was saying, “I’m not just any sinner; but I’m the worst of the worst”. Contrast this with the self-righteousness of the Pharisee!

And then the tax collector used the word translated here mercy. The greek word used here is actually only used twice in the New Testament. The other place where it is used is Hebrews 2:17 where it is used in connection with Jesus Christ being the High Priest making propitiation or atonement for the sins of the people. The greek word used for mercy in this passage is connected with a equivalent Hebrew word in the Old Testament which is used to describe the “mercy seat” and “a covering”. It is used in connection with the burnt offering (Lev. 1:4; Lev. 14:20; Lev. 16:24), the guilt offering (Lev. 5:16,18), the sin offering (Lev. 4:20, 26,31,35) and other respects. It is used of the ram offered at the consecration of the high priest (Exodus 29:33), and of the blood which God gave upon the altar to make “propitiation” or “atonement” for the souls of the people, and that because “the life of the flesh is in the blood,”(Lev. 17:11), and “it is the blood that maketh atonement by reason of the life.

Now what is significant here is that this man is pleading for the blood covering of the sacrifice over his sin. He’s praying for the High Priest to take the blood of the sacrificial goat, and sprinkle it over the gold covered mercy seat, of the Ark of Covenant which will make atonement for his sin.

Now follow me carefully – the Ark of the Covenant held the 10 commandments which represent the Law of God and it’s important to know that you can’t know the Love of God until you know the Mercy of God. Jesus said in Matthew 5:20,

For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 5:20 (NIV)

Jesus said something that is impossible for people to live up to. For the Pharisees were the most legalistic of legalistic people – they knew the law of God inside and out and had even added a few of their own. What Jesus was saying is impossible for any man to measure up to and yet it demonstrated the holiness of God and the totality of sin upon man. Simply put, man cannot satisfy the requirements of the law and because of that cannot draw close to God and in fact will pay the penalty of sin which is death. According to this law, this tax collector deserved death, BUT he was pleading for mercy. He was pleading for the atonement of the blood – something that he could not do but only God could provide. When the High Priest sprinkled the blood of the sacrificial goat on the Mercy Seat, God in Heaven looked down, and before He could see the Law that said death in the Ark, He had to look through the blood which said life, and it was by the shed blood that this person would receive mercy.

I’m saying to all of you this morning – you can’t know the love of God until you know the mercy of God. Until you realize you’re complete inability to work or earn or buy your way into the graces of God and the paradise of heaven you will be stuck in the deadly clutches of the law (as was the Pharisee). But at the moment you plead for the mercy of God, the blood of Calvary guarantees that God will be merciful. No matter what sin you’ve committed, no matter what past you have, no matter what position you have in life. He will forgive you; He will give you a new beginning; He will be your life, and He will give you a new name, written down in glory and a joy that will last forever and ever. For the blood of the sacrificial lamb, Jesus Christ has power to release life.

CONCLUSION

Finally and in closing, Jesus ended the story with a bit of an anomaly. He basically said that whoever humbles himself will be exalted or in other words, by lowing yourself, you rise to your highest potential. The Kingdom of God defies logic sometimes.

A city boy visited his cousin who lived on a farm in the country for the first time. The city boy had never seen wheat growing in a field. It was an impressive sight for him, the wheat golden brown and ready for harvesting. He noticed that some of the wheat stood tall in the field, whereas some of it was bent low, touching the ground. The city boy said to his cousin, “I bet the ones standing tall are the best ones, aren’t they?” His cousin smiled knowingly and reached over and plucked the head of one of the tall-standing wheat stalks and one that was bent to the ground. He rubbed each of them and the city boy saw that the tall one was almost empty of seeds. But the one bent to the ground was full of the promise of a rich harvest. (R. Curtis Fussel, Deadly Sins and Living Virutues, CSS Publishing Company, Inc, 1997)

You see, this kind of thinking does not compute in the mind of a Pharisee, in the mind of one who wears a mask. But it is nevertheless an important truth in the Kingdom of God. It goes against the logic of a world that says those who are first are best and those who are last are worst. The truth remains however that according to the way of Christ – through death comes life; by giving, you have great gain; through the cross, you gain the crown.

The Pharisee left the church that day a sinner, and the sinner left the church a saint, why? Because of the mercy and the forgiveness of God. And I ask you again this morning, where are you in this picture, are you off somewhere wearing your Pharisaical mask saying, “I thank you God that I’m not like the other people”, or are you on the other side saying, “God be merciful to me, the sinner”?

A martial arts student was meeting with his master and teacher at a table, having tea. The student said to his master, “I’ve learned all you have to teach me about defending myself. I want to learn one thing more now. Please teach me about the ways of God.”

The master took the teakettle and started pouring the student’s cup full of tea. Soon the cup was full and began to spill over onto the saucer. But the master continued to pour the tea until it spilled over the saucer and then onto the floor.

The student finally said, “Stop, stop, the tea is spilling over. The cup can’t take any more.” The master then looked at the student and said, “You are so full of yourself that there is no room in your life for God. It is not possible for you to learn the ways of God until you learn to empty yourself.”

Talent-Plus People

Wednesday, August 22nd, 2007

John Maxwell has identified 13 seemingly straightforward traits that go beyond innate talent yet are often overlooked. His point is that talent alone will not sustain you in relationships, whether business or personal. He refers to those who subscribe to these traits as “TALENT-PLUS PEOPLE.” Maxwell lists these traits as choices you must consider in your quest to be a more effective leader, spouse, parent and/or friend: (more…)

The Disease of Diotrephes

Sunday, August 19th, 2007

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9 I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will have nothing to do with us. 10 So if I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, gossiping maliciously about us. Not satisfied with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers. He also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church.
3 John 1:9-10 (NIV)

John doesn’t write much about this man named Diotrephes but what he does write isn’t very flattering – and rightly so. It appears that this Diotrephes is a man that John fully intends on confronting if he returns to the church that he is referring to. In looking at this man Diotrephes today I believe that we will uncover four characteristics that can cause problems in the Christian community. If these characteristics go unrecognized they quickly lead to what could be diagnosed as Diotrephes disease.

1. He loves to be first (v.9)

How does this desire usually show itself?
Have you ever seen the actions and reactions, the behaviors, the attitudes of someone who loves to be first? Such people are usually filled with pride – the kind of pride that is not easily humbled. Such people like to have the best seats (the front seat in the car), like to have their name prominently mentioned whenever possible, have to have the jobs that get tons of recognition, and always want to have to last word…

Why do you think people want to be first?
Maybe they want recognition, maybe its because they’re afraid of being last, of being left out or left behind. Maybe they crave the attention. Maybe it’s because they want to hide some weakness they have. The truth is people want to be first because it satisfies their desire to feel needed .

Is it possible for Christians to have this attitude?
Oh no, Christians never have this attitude, after all – wasn’t it Jesus who said the last will be first and the first will be last? “I’m going to do everything I can to be last so that I’ll be first!!!” Is that really what Jesus was saying?

33 They came to Capernaum. When he was in the house, he asked them, “What were you arguing about on the road?” 34 But they kept quiet because on the way they had argued about who was the greatest. 35 Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all.”
Mark 9:33-35 (NIV)

One the major themes of Jesus ministry was the principle of servant leadership. The idea that influential positions come at the cost of humble hardwork. The disciples were arguing amongst themselves about who was the greatest – oh their lines of conversation is not recorded but I’m sure it included a few things such as, “I followed Jesus first!!” “I’ve given up more to follow Jesus!!” “Jesus hasn’t rebuked me as much as he’s rebuked some of you!!” or perhaps even, “I’m greater than all of you because I’m the one that Jesus put in charge of the money….” Is this argument much different than some of the arguments we sometimes carry on today? The reason why the disciples kept so quiet when Jesus asked “What are you arguing about?” is because they probably knew what Jesus would say to them,
Jesus reinforces this message many times, in Matthew 19:28-30 Jesus indicates that at the end times many who are first will be last and many who are last will be first. In Matthew 20:1-16 Jesus uses the parable of the workers in the Vineyard to teach this same principle. It is reemphasized in Mark 10:25-31 and again in Luke 13:22-30.

So if wanting to be first is a undesirable “Diotrephes” characteristic what kind of attitude should we have?

3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. 4 Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Philippians 2:3-4 (NIV)

Are you doing anything to develop this kind of attitude? If so, what are you doing? Do you catch yourself arguing your greatness (either in your mind or with others)? Do you eagerly seek out ways in which you can serve others? Do you seek to lead by example or simply go around telling people the right way to do things?

Do you have this symptom of Diotrephes disease or are you living out the cure?

2. He would have nothing to do with us (vs.9)

The “us” in this passage refers to John and his companions. What is significant about this is that John was an apostle of Jesus Christ – one of the leaders of the early Christian church and certainly a significant player in the shaping and cultivating of the new believers in the Kingdom of God. However we find it written that Diotrephes would have nothing to do with John or his companions….Why? Why do you think Diotrephes would want to reject one of Jesus’ apostles? More than likely it is because of the threat John and company pose to Diotrephes position and wretched influence. Remember that Diotrephes loves to be first. One of the signposts of such a person is that they won’t play second fiddle to nobody. They won’t accept anybody’s authority over them. Needless to say such people don’t really operate well in team meetings.

Let me ask you this question…Do we ever reject leaders in the church today? Has there ever been a time where you don’t want nothing to do with a leader in the church because you don’t like them or don’t like their style of ministry or because they’ve hurt you? Or maybe it’s because they’ve exercised their leadership and you didn’t like it? How did you respond? Or maybe you’ve witnessed and seen someone else in the church respond negatively to a leader in the church.

Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.
Hebrews 13:7 (NIV)

In what ways does the writer of Hebrews tell us to treat the leaders of the church?

“Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith” Couched in here is a very important principle regarding our attitude towards our leaders. “Consider” is used before “imitate”. What is the outcome of your leader’s way of life? Don’t imitate your leader if the outcome of their way of life is contrary to what the scripture teaches.

Mention also must be made of “imitate”. Notice the writer did not say “and imitate them” it says “and imitate their faith” No leader is perfect and we’re not asked to imitate their imperfections – rather we’re asked to imitate their faith.

Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.
Hebrews 13:17 (NIV)

Obedience and submission are two words that a person who loves to be first really hates. This is the case because a person who loves to be first does not recognize the authority of someone who is a leader over them.

In obeying and submitting to the authority of your leaders it must be remembered that the leaders themselves will give an account of their leadership. You don’t think they are good leaders? You think you would do a better job? You don’t like the way they handled a particular situation? Fine, but remember unless they are removed from their leadership by God they still have been given authority by God – oh don’t worry they will eventually account for their actions. The best thing to do when you aren’t sure a leader is doing the right thing is to PRAY for them.

Another significant thing mentioned in this verse is easily understood if you’ve ever tried to lead a Sunday School class of 2-6 year olds. It is a much more joyful and rewarding experience if the children obey the leader when being taught!! That is the way it is in the church as well. Notice the tail end, “for that would be of no advantage to you.” Obeying your leaders (that is, listening to their suggestions, following their advice, accepting their discipline) is not for their advantage but for yours!! …. (Moses and Israel)

3. He is gossiping maliciously (v.10)

Not only did Diotrephes have nothing to do with John and company but he began to speak ill about them to others – but that is probably a very light way of putting it. Gossip is idle talk – it’s when you talk about others behind their backs. It usually begins with the words, “Did you know?…” I’ve heard gossip defined as, “verbal diarrhea” – I tend to agree with this definition.

Why do people gossip? Again, it is heavily related to the desire to be first!! When people gossip they are really saying, “Guess what I just found out!!”, or “I know something you don’t know…”. In Diotrephes case his malicious gossip was intended to degrade the authority of the apostle’s leadership and puff up himself. You know the funny thing about gossiping is we’re ready to expound on the latest troubles or failures about someone but we’re not doing the slightest thing to help them.

You want to know what a test for gossip is? Here’s a quick three questions you can ask to determine if what you are about to say is gossip:

1. Is this something you would say if the individual you are talking about was present?
2. If your answer is yes to the above question – have you talked to them about it first and verified that it’s public information?
3. Is what you are about to share going to benefit the person(s) you are talking about?

If you answer no or “not sure” to any of the above questions then it’s gossip.

One of the saddest effects of gossip is that it often involves the spreading of lies and half-truths. Oh what may have started out to be true by the time it gets to the 10th or 11th person the story has changed so much that if the 1st person was to hear it they would think its a new tidbit of information to pass along!! Gossip is something that destroys any organization or group of people and especially the church rather than building up. It causes distrust, anger, hurt feelings, broken relationships, and spreads Diotrephes disease like wildfire.

Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body.
Ephesians 4:25 (NIV)

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)

4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. 7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man, 8 but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. 9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.
James 3:4-10 (NIV)

What are you willing to do to stop gossip in its tracks when it comes around to you?

4. He refuses to welcome the brothers (v.10)

Diotrephes was guilty not only of gossiping maliciously about John and company but also made sure that any associates of John would not be welcome. Now Diotrephes is going so far as to distance himself from the fellowship of these “brothers in Christ”!!

Does this ever happen today? Is there ever a time when you want to close the door of welcome on those who come seeking to fellowship with this church? with you? What are the ways we use to make people feel unwelcome? Most often it’s not by what we say but by our non-verbal actions that we show people that they are unwelcome around you.

The Bible speaks of certain criteria that we should look to before deciding whether we should separate ourselves from fellowship with certain believers:

17 I urge you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. 18 For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people.
Romans 16:17-18 (NIV)

Hmm…such a person would seem to be suffering from Diotrephes disease!

9 But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless. 10 Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him. 11 You may be sure that such a man is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned.
Titus 3:9-11 (NIV)

Wait a minute here – these passages don’t say anything about not liking a person – what about our personality clash!! Surely I can have nothing to do with the person I don’t agree with? You don’t understand that person is a little bit weird…. Sorry, these reasons aren’t sufficient to justify not welcoming someone.

Again Diotrephes failed to welcome the brothers not because they deceive the minds of naïve people by smooth talk and flattery – not because they are divisive (that is they seek to bring division to the church) but because… he desires to be first.

One of the biggest dangers of a church contracting Diotrephes disease is that it starts to become inward reaching instead of outward stretching. Instead of being encouraged by new people coming into the church and welcoming them with open arms such a church feels threatened because these new people might bring problems we can’t handle or they may be better singers, or better musicians, or better teachers, or make a better casserole or pie than we can. Or doesn’t it seem that the pastor has been spending more time with the new people recently? Grumble…grumble…grumble… Folks the challenge presented by this attitude of Diotrephes is to overcome our tendencies to continue to nurse the exclusive club mentality and instead stretch out and make people feel welcome – going beyond the simple hello and handshake during service, going beyond the casual wave around town – and onto the dinner invitations – the surprise visits – the invitation to participate in church activities – the offer to drive someone to church…..

Diotrephes saw some people stretching out to welcome the brothers and 3 John records, “he stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church” Diotrephes and the people that were infected with his disease became so inward reaching that they even became angry towards the people who knew the right thing to do and did it.

Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.
James 4:17 (NIV)

Have you ever reacted the way Diotrephes did? Have you ever become angry with someone who has confronted you with the right thing to do (through what they say and do) and ignored them?

Some churches today are struggling because there are people who are outward stretching and they are being labeled as outcast by those who are inward stretching.

What we’ve seen in the life of Diotrephes today should serve as a warning to those of us who may have had the symptoms of Diotrephes disease and as a prevention from witnessing this disease take hold in our church as it grows.

CONCLUSION

The major cause of this disease had its tendrils running through every characteristic that we discussed today and that is the desire to be first This is what I want to focus on as this message draws to an end. If we’re going to become immune to Diotrephes disease we must first be willing to administer the vaccine of humility and total submission and obedience to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. If we realize the primary position of Jesus Christ in our lives then it becomes easier for us to forget about our own desire to be number one… in every church – in every heart there lies the potential to be a Diotrephes – let’s administer the vaccine together…PRAY.

A Worthy Call

Sunday, August 5th, 2007
This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series The Call of God

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INTRODUCTION

Today I’m continuing the series I’ve been preaching on the call of God. Recap:
- 1st message: I spoke on how God chose to have a unique, personal and real relationship with us. Because this relationship is unique for each one of us, God does not deal with all of us in the same way.
- 2nd message: I shared two important truths about the call of God that point to where it begins. First, “The Call of God isn’t so much about what He wants US to do FOR Him but more importantly about what HE wants us to do WITH US. Second, “The Effectiveness of God’s calling in our life depends on our response”.
- 3rd message: Our greatest struggle isn’t knowing what God desires of us; it is choosing to be obedient to God and His call in my life!Today’s message begins with this statement, “The Call of God is a Worthy Call!”…there are a lot of things that we do in life but there is no greater thing we could do than fulfilling what God’s plan is for our life!! And the message I am trying to get across is that God has a calling for every single person. As I’ve emphasized over and over in this series “All are called!” There is a purpose for your life. There is a reason why you are who you are. There is a significant reason for living. Until you know that purpose, until you embrace your life in Christ, until you live His life everything you do, everything you say, everything you experience will feel like it’s missing some ingredient, some component that would make it right.

One of the first things I notice in the text I’m preaching from today is Paul urging the Ephesians to live a life worthy of the calling they had received. In other words, God’s calling is valuable so make your life count – let your life be a testimony to the worthiness of God’s calling. It is not a trivial thing, it is not a temporary thing, it is not a tasteless thing – the call of God should be a primary guiding force in your life because as Christians, Jesus Christ is our life!! Paul recognized this when he described himself as a prisoner for the Lord.
In our text then this morning, Paul describes what constitutes living a life worthy of the calling you have received. In doing so we gain some further insight into understanding the calling of God for your life.

Fulfilling the calling of God results in unity among God’s people (vs. 2-5,11-12)

It is the primary nature of God’s call to promote unity among God’s people. Paul writes elsewhere that Christians are to be “ministers of reconciliation”. If you think God has called you to be served by other people then I think you’re reading a different Bible than mine. If you think God has called you to a place of more significance and value than another person then I think you’re reading a different Bible than mine.

The call of God is fundamentally the same for every single one of us.

At first you may think I’m contradicting myself because I know I have said at other times that God’s call on each one of us is unique. But these statements while seemingly oppose each other are actually different facets of the call of God.
We may all have different roles or parts that God wants us to play in His plan and His plan for each one of us is unique and based on how He has created us (as illustrated by Paul’s reference to how God gave some to be apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachers) BUT the fundamental call never changes… What is the fundamental call for every single one of us?

4 There is one body and one Spirit– just as you were called to one hope when you were called– 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.
Ephesians 4:4-6 (NIV)

Paul says, “just as you were called to one HOPE when you were called”… What is this “one Hope” that Paul is talking about? Hope here refers to a “favorable and confident expectation” having to do with the unseen and the future. It is confident in that this is something based on assurance of fulfillment rather than wishful thinking. This is the difference between Paul’s use of the word here and how it is commonly used today. When people use hope in a sentence what they are usually really saying is I’m not sure that this is going to happen but I sure wish that it does. Don’t we always say that before sitting down to fill out our income tax return or send off our tax information to the accountant? Come on, secretly aren’t we saying to ourselves, “I hope I get a nice refund…?” This is not how Paul is using the word hope. Using hope in this way is simply saying, “I’m not sure that I’ll get one, and in fact I probably won’t but I wish I would”. To take this analogy further – “hope” as Paul is using it would be better expressed in this context: After doing the calculations or receiving the news from the Accountant that the government owes you a refund, you say to yourself, “I hope the refund comes soon.” There, your hope is a confident expectation – there is no doubt you’ll receive the refund – you just haven’t got it yet. This is the nature of the Hope that Paul is talking about.

So if Paul is talking about a favorable and confident expectation here – and remember this is the fundamentally same call every single one of us have – then what is the expectation Paul is talking about? Clues that answer this question are scattered throughout the early letter’s to the church:

22 We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 23 Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? 25 But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.
Romans 8:22-25 (NIV)

1 Paul, a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ for the faith of God’s elect and the knowledge of the truth that leads to godliness– 2 a faith and knowledge resting on the hope of eternal life, which God, who does not lie, promised before the beginning of time, 3 and at his appointed season he brought his word to light through the preaching entrusted to me by the command of God our Savior,
Titus 1:1-3 (NIV)

17 Since you call on a Father who judges each man’s work impartially, live your lives as strangers here in reverent fear. 18 For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your forefathers, 19 but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect. 20 He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake. 21 Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God.
1 Peter 1:17-21 (NIV)

24 Now I rejoice in what was suffered for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church. 25 I have become its servant by the commission God gave me to present to you the word of God in its fullness– 26 the mystery that has been kept hidden for ages and generations, but is now disclosed to the saints. 27 To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.
Colossians 1:24-27 (NIV)

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the command of God our Savior and of Christ Jesus our hope,
1 Timothy 1:1 (NIV)

With these clues taken from these scriptures and others in Paul’s writings we learn that this confident expectation he is talking about here is…

Centered on Christ

Anytime Paul talks about this “hope” it is connected with the person and activity of Christ. He is the source for our hope, He is the fulfillment of hope, He is the continuation of hope. To the mind of Paul, apart from Christ there is no hope. In other words our future and our lives is wrapped up in the complete work and person of Jesus Christ who is Saviour and God. That is why the fundamental call that joins every believer together is the call to Christ. He is our hope. In this sense we also learn through Paul’s writings that this hope is…

Both something obtained and something yet to come

Paul frequently refers to this hope in the sense that what we hope for has already been obtained and yet is still to come. The “what” that He is talking about is life in Christ. Specifically a life that is complete, whole and full of the glory of God. In one sense this hope is fulfilled in the believer who places His life in God’s hands and trusts in the truth and validity of His word. In one sense this hope is fulfilled in the person who has willingly surrendered their lives to God and yielded control over to the one who created them.

In yet another sense there is the understanding that yes, we are made whole by Christ. Our sins, our failings, or selfishness are taken care of by the cross but yet there is still a process of becoming more like Him – even though we are assured as Paul wrote to the Colossian church of the mystery of Christ in us. There is the understanding that we hope (that is eagerly, and confidently look forward) to that day when we are no longer hampered by the failings of our flesh and the sinful mind. Where we are totally and completely whole in Christ.

This how the call of God is fundamentally the same for every single one of us.

The call of God will always lead you to a place of service. (4:11-12)

to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up
Ephesians 4:12 (NIV)

Humility, gentleness, patience, bearing with one another in love are all qualities of a servant. It is in the place of a servant that we are of the greatest use to God. Those who serve God will always find themselves at some point serving people! Remember the greatest commandments Jesus mentioned were to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and the second is to love your neighbor as yourself. Such love can only be found in the heart of a servant.

A quick way to evaluate whether something is indeed what God is calling you is to ask yourself if it involves serving.

It is the nature of a heart that serves to be in unity with other servants. This is why the call of God promotes unity among God’s people. We are all in service of the King together – we are all serving each other and the people God calls us to. There is no room for disunity, and for petty squabbles over recognition, reward, and pride in the Kingdom of God. Those things only lead to disunity.

Fulfilling the call of God results in maturity among God’s people.

If we had a church with a body of believers who were all seeking and fulfilling the call of God in their lives then you would have a church of unified, maturing Christians.

Ephesians 4:12-13 (NIV)
12 to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.

What is maturity according to Paul? “Attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ” It is reaching the place where Christ lives through you. It is attaining that place where people are attracted to Christ by how you live! It is living out the Hope that I talked about earlier.

When your life reflects the life of Christ then you are mature. Yet the external evidence of maturity is the natural outflow of what happens internally. Maturity is when you are “transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:1-2). It is when your heart’s desires are prompted by the desires of God’s heart. It’s when what you believe lines up with God’s word. It’s when your motivations for what you do are sparked by the prompting of the Holy Spirit.

When you fulfill the call of God for your life you are taking a step towards maturity in your faith. People who are sure about the calling of God in their lives and are obedient to what He is asking them to do will not be swayed by the temporary offerings of this world. A church of such people will replicate and grow as God works through them to bring others into His family.

I like what Paul writes in the next few verses,

14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming. 15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ. 16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.
Ephesians 4:14-16 (NIV)

conclusion

So after saying all this how do we live lives worthy of the calling we have received?

Ephesians 4:3 (NIV)
3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.

1. Recognize that God has called you!! And that His calling on your life is unique!

2. Believe that the call of God is something valuable.

3. Recognize that while the calling God has place on your life is unique, you are also part of a body of believers with a fundamentally unified call.

4. Evaluate what you are doing in light of what Paul says about God’s call…
- Do you contribute to the unity of the church? (humble, patient, bearing with one another in love)
- Are you leading people to Christ (knowledge of the Son of God)?
- Are you confident and certain in what God is telling you to do?

5. Be obedient to the call of God for your life!